Easter Arrangements in Parenting Plans

For many families, Easter is a time of togetherness, religious and cultural traditions, relaxation, joy and chocolate!

 Unfortunately, if you have found yourself in a place of conflict following a separation, you will know that this isn’t always the case for some separated families.  It can be a time of confusion, conflict, stress, avoidance and sadness. If arrangements have not been previously discussed and agreed on, there can be a lack of structure which will require an increase in communication with your co-parent during an already stressful and unknown time. 

 This is why including Easter in your parenting plan discussions and negotiations is so important.  Talking about these things early rather than at the last minute is always best.

 Here are three ideas for your Parenting arrangements during the Easter Holiday period. 

 1. Lands where it lands approach

Some families take the ‘lands where it lands approach’.  This is a simple, no-fuss plan where parents can continue on with the normal holiday or weekend routines. This can work well however it can result in the children spending Easter with the same parent for a couple of years in a row.   If the children or parents are not particularly fussed by this, it can be a straightforward and easy approach.

 2.  Alternate Easter each year. 

Similar to Christmas periods, families may agree to alternate the Easter long weekend each year, allowing quality time and get aways over the long weekend. Unlike Christmas, there is less emphasis on seeing both parents on the actual day and they are happy to alternate. This can get a little tricky regarding some arrangements during holiday time. If parents have a half/half-holiday arrangement, this particular holiday period needs some extra attention and discussion and separate agreements.

 3. Easter Sunday change over

Some parents and children prefer to see each parent/child on Easter Sunday.  This can work well if it doesn’t interrupt with going away (some families stay put during the busy times) and if they live geographically close. Not to say an Easter Sunday changeover can’t work if the parents are not geographically close however, lengthy travel times on special days can be a little dreary.

 The beauty of mediation however is that it doesn’t matter what the arrangements end up being as long as they are in the best interest of your children and you and your co-parent agree! Mediation can produce outcomes unique to your family, no one else makes the decisions for you. 

 If you are finding that you are having difficulties making Easter arrangements with your co-parent, give Bendigo Mediation a call and we can provide further information on how we can help you and your family have a relaxing and enjoyable Easter.